“We have to dare to be ourselves, however frightening or strange that self may prove to be.” ~ May Sarton I was completely moved by that quote when I first read it and since I have been spending September exposing and exploring myself, it stuck with me.It ties perfectly into what I wanted to write about today: morals. So many definitions, so many variations. Which … Continue reading Dare to Be
I’m pretty sure my mom went to her grave thinking I am still a virgin and Dad, I’m not a virgin anymore (sorry). I haven’t been since I was 21. I’m glad I waited until I was 21. I at least had some wits about me vs being a naive teen. It’s taken me a long time to realize that I am comfortable in my … Continue reading Don’t Slut-Shame Me for Being Comfortable in My Skin
I will admit without shame that I am completely fascinated with the world of the adult film industry…aka…pornography. If I could be on a set and actually watch the filming of a porn, I would jump at the chance. I have so many questions about how the industry works, how filming works, the logistics of filming the movie and scenes, why a straight man is doing … Continue reading Everyone Watches a Version of It
Here are my social media thoughts…and I do mean, my thoughts on the social media I use. If you Foursquare via Twitter more than you actually Twitter, I’ve probably unfollowed you or I don’t follow you at all. I don’t care if you’re the Mayor, the President, Hot Shit of Whatever. If I wanted to know your whereabouts, I’d ask…and unless you really are an … Continue reading Me on Social Media
A few months ago, I gutted my Facebook friends list. I deleted so called “friends” that I never ever spoke to, didn’t care if they’re unborn baby was waving in the sonogram, the ones who only asked for free stuff and so on. Yesterday, I deleted even more “friends.” People, I thought I’d want to keep up with, I didn’t. I also deleted everyone in … Continue reading Twitter vs Facebook
[youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MhYyAa0VnyY] hate 1. to dislike intensely or passionately; feel extreme aversion for or extreme hostility toward; detest: to hate the enemy; to hate bigotry. 2. to be unwilling; dislike: I hate to do it. I don’t understand that word. To feel extreme aversion for something…I know I say I hate a certain co-worker but if she were bleeding in a ditch, I’m human enough … Continue reading Acceptance
Girls, Be Proud of Your Inner Geek I stumbled across the story on CNN called “The Force is With You, Katie” today and when I read it I was immediately taken back to my childhood. I can’t say that I was a Star Wars fan like Katie, but I know the bullying and the name calling because you’re a bit different from the norm. I was a … Continue reading The Force is With You