I have learned and discovered that there is pretty much a sexual fetish for anything and everything. It is completely fascinating that some people are turned on by balloons. Yep, balloons. I don’t get it, but someone out there is turned on sexually by balloons. To each his/her own. When most people think fetish, their head immediately goes to whip, chains, latex, leather, but that … Continue reading Let’s Get Weird
I’m pretty sure my mom went to her grave thinking I am still a virgin and Dad, I’m not a virgin anymore (sorry). I haven’t been since I was 21. I’m glad I waited until I was 21. I at least had some wits about me vs being a naive teen. It’s taken me a long time to realize that I am comfortable in my … Continue reading Don’t Slut-Shame Me for Being Comfortable in My Skin
So yesterday’s 30 Day Writing Challenge was an erotica piece that I wrote and let me tell you, it was the most difficult thing I wrote. I’m not sure how erotica writers make it read so effortlessly. Making sex sound sexy and enticing is hard work. You can’t have an erotic story use the word penis and vagina without sounding clinical and using the word “member” … Continue reading What I Learned Writing My First Erotica Piece
Pushing the glass door open, I smiled at the elderly security guard and walked to where he sat. “I’m here for a meeting with Gray,” I said before he could ask what my business was and filled out the paper on the clipboard. “I figured. He mentioned he had a meeting with someone,” he said, glancing at the clipboard. “You know where you’re going Lillian?” … Continue reading A Late Night Visit
I will admit without shame that I am completely fascinated with the world of the adult film industry…aka…pornography. If I could be on a set and actually watch the filming of a porn, I would jump at the chance. I have so many questions about how the industry works, how filming works, the logistics of filming the movie and scenes, why a straight man is doing … Continue reading Everyone Watches a Version of It
When I heard that Sasha Grey had a novel coming out, I was jealous. I think my thought to myself was “great, even a porn star gets published before I do.” In reality, I had to tell myself, “No shit Sherlock. Her novel is actually written and yours is not.” If you do not know Sasha Grey, she is a former adult film star turned … Continue reading Review: The Juliette Society